Almost seven million Americans are living with Alzheimer’s, the most common form of dementia, with most being over the age of 65, according to the Alzheimer’s Association. If you are supporting a parent with dementia, you are not alone in facing the challenges that come with this condition.

Dementia can impact memory, behavior, and daily functioning, often leaving families unsure of how best to help. At Aston Gardens At The Courtyards in Sun City Center, FL, we specialize in providing expert care through our nationally recognized SHINE® Memory Care program.

In this guide to family caregiving, we’ll share practical tips for supporting a parent with dementia, creating a safe environment, and considering memory care options when needed. Let’s get started with these dementia care tips.

What Exactly Is Dementia?

Firstly, it’s important to make the distinction that dementia is not a single disease but a general term for conditions that affect:

Memory
Thinking
Behavior

As noted above, Alzheimer’s disease is the most common type, accounting for up to 80% of dementia cases. Symptoms often start with mild forgetfulness but can progress to include difficulty with:

Communication
Problem-solving
Completing everyday tasks

Understanding these changes is key to providing meaningful support for your parent with dementia. As dementia progresses, it can lead to emotional changes, such as anxiety or depression, and behavioral challenges, like confusion or aggression.

While these changes can be difficult to navigate, patience and empathy go a long way in helping your loved one feel safe and understood.

At Aston Gardens At The Courtyards, our SHINE® Memory Care program emphasizes a person-centered approach, focusing on strengths rather than limitations. This philosophy helps residents feel valued and supported, even as their needs evolve over time.

Communication Tips

Effective communication with a parent with dementia can make a big difference in their daily life. As dementia progresses, verbal and cognitive abilities may decline, but there are strategies that can help.

For example, you can start by speaking slowly and clearly, using simple words and short sentences. You can also maintain eye contact and a calm tone, as your body language and facial expressions can provide reassurance even when words fail.

It’s better to avoid asking complex questions or giving too many choices, as this can cause confusion. Instead, offer yes-or-no questions or clear directions. Be patient and allow extra time for them to respond. If they struggle to find words, avoid interrupting or correcting them; gently suggest a word if needed.

Here at Aston Gardens At The Courtyards, we prioritize communication as a vital part of care. Our SHINE® Memory Care program trains staff to engage residents effectively, fostering a sense of trust and connection, even during difficult moments.

Creating a Safe Environment

A safe and supportive environment is essential when caring for a parent with dementia. Changes in cognitive abilities can increase the risk of accidents or confusion, so adjustments in the home can help.

Simple measures, such as removing loose rugs and keeping pathways clear, reduce the chances of falls. Adequate lighting in hallways and bathrooms improves visibility and minimizes disorientation at any time of day.

Familiar items placed within easy reach also provide a sense of comfort and security. Labels on drawers, cabinets, and doors can serve as helpful guides for everyday tasks. Secured storage for sharp objects, medications, and cleaning supplies helps prevent accidents while maintaining routines.

We at Aston Gardens At The Courtyards take safety seriously with a thoughtfully designed memory care community.

Encouraging Meaningful Activities

Another important point to make is that meaningful activities play an important role in the life of a parent with dementia. Engaging in familiar tasks or hobbies helps maintain a sense of purpose and provides emotional care for parents with dementia.

So, for example, activities like sorting items, folding towels, or gardening can provide comfort and satisfaction. Creative outlets such as painting, drawing, or listening to music often spark joy and stimulate the mind.

Social interactions are equally valuable. Sharing a conversation, playing simple games, or looking through photo albums can strengthen bonds and create positive experiences. Activities should match their abilities and interests to prevent frustration while ensuring a sense of accomplishment.

At our community, activities are tailored to residents’ needs through our SHINE® Memory Care program. Purpose-driven opportunities focus on strengths rather than limitations, allowing residents to participate in enjoyable and fulfilling experiences. This personalized approach fosters confidence, independence, and meaningful engagement every day.

Taking Care of Yourself

Caring for a parent with dementia can be emotionally and physically demanding, making self-care essential. Neglecting your own needs may lead to burnout, which can impact both you and your loved one. Setting aside time to rest, eat nutritious meals, and engage in activities you enjoy helps maintain your overall well-being.

Seeking support from friends, family, or caregiver groups can provide valuable encouragement and practical advice. Sharing responsibilities, even for a few hours, allows you to recharge. Recognizing your limits and asking for help when needed is an important step in maintaining balance.

Considering Memory Care Services

Last but not least, exploring memory care services can be a thoughtful way to support a parent with dementia as their needs evolve. Specialized communities like ours provide a safe and structured environment staffed by trained professionals who understand the complexities of memory-related conditions.

These services offer personalized care plans, engaging activities, and 24/7 assistance tailored to each resident’s abilities.

Memory care can also ease the emotional and physical strain on family members, ensuring loved ones receive high-quality care while families regain peace of mind.